Life-changing tips for elegant ladies! Part 1

Life-changing tips…

…that I wish somebody would’ve taught me back in the days. For this reason, ladies, I’m here to share these valuable lessons with you so that you can make your life easier and have better success. 

Own a steamer 

A handheld steamer to be exact, and I want it to become your new best friend, because this is by far a life-changing piece of equipment. And I don’t know why nobody really talks about the fact that how can you travel or live without a steamer. So ironing your clothes is of course a must, but a lot of people find it too complicated and too time consuming. And it’s also difficult to do it when you’re traveling. But this is why a steamer is such a good solution because when you are traveling, you can take this thing with you. Literally anywhere you go. Even if you’re traveling only with hand luggage, it will be a little bit annoying, but it’s doable. Then you don’t have to use any other equipment besides this and a little bit of tap water. And then you basically just steam your garment without having to really invest much time or effort. This is just such a better solution for getting all those wrinkles out of your clothes and looking a little bit more polished. 

Because you know what’s the easiest way of looking cheap? Well, that is if your garment is wrinkled, even if it costs thousand of dollars. You are going to look cheap, but if you steam your item, regardless of its price, it’s always going to look expensive. I just feel like we should do everything possible to prevent wrinkles and leave our home looking immaculate or at least trying our best. And then kind of whatever happens after that.

So get a steamer. It doesn’t matter which one it is. As long as it gets the job done. 

Get therapy

I’m going make a bold statement and I do have this philosophy and this is actually why you keep hearing me talk about therapy all the time, because the second life changing tip is that I really want as many people as possible to get therapy, but only if they’re ready for it. So, I do have a strong belief that if more people around the world seek out help and resolve their issues and their struggles, I believe we perhaps one day would then achieve peace on this earth. Or maybe just live in a world where people are kinder.

I feel like this world is full of negativity and a lot of pain and negativity comes from pain, but the majority of people worldwide don’t address the pain and don’t deal with the root cause of the pain. We all have our baggage, we all have our damages. Some people have it worse, some have it easier, but everybody out there has a story, but this is what’s so sad is that not everybody deals with their baggage and that creates a spiral effect into negativity, into unhappiness and so on. And one of the big missions with the work that I personally do online is that I want to do something good in this world. And one of those things that I want to do is that I really want to normalize therapy and really take the stigma out of a it, I mean, I have been so open about the fact that I have been going to therapy for more than now, four years. And I will probably always go to therapy. My life has changed dramatically because of the help of therapy. And as an example, all these things that I sit here and teach you and help you when it comes to personal development, a lot of these things, I had to go through myself. So there’s a lot of aha moments that I get continuously and as a result, because I’m always dealing with my mental health, with personal growth and self-improvement and personal development. And I think the difference between me and maybe some other people is that I truly have understood that therapy is not a shameful thing to do. It is not something crazy people do or mentally unstable people, actually a lot of strong people who sees therapy as a personal growth tool and they use it so that they can become more successful, so that they can improve themselves. I don’t know if anybody of you have watched the TV series “Billions” where, you have this top level business owner who has this therapist working with him, who’s just dealing with him and helping him forward. And that’s how I see a therapist. It’s somebody who helps you move forward in life and helps you upgrade yourself and makes you stronger, etc. Now you can’t JUST rely on therapy for that. You have to always combine that with other methods and tools as well. But I would personally say that from my own experience, therapy has been a game changer. So if you are somebody who really want to take this personal upgrade, seriously, believe me when I say that therapy is going to help you take you to that level. And yes, it’s going to be an investment, but believe me, when you invest in your self growth and in your mental health, that’s the best investment you can ever do, because you are going to have an unlimited amount of things coming to you in return because you did that investment.

Define your lifestyle goals

All those ladies who are taking my Secrets Of The Elite Woman program, they know that I always stress about in the beginning, how you need to define your lifestyle goals. And the reason for that is as I teach transformation and as I am somebody who with coaching women to be able to achieve their goals and whatever it is that they want to achieve in life, I believe that the clearer vision you have in your head of where you want to go, the easier it will be to strategize that path. This doesn’t mean though, that you must know all the answers before you start. Nothing is ever set in stone and it’s always fine to change your mind along the way and change direction and just like try things out. But the more you know in advance the better, however, you also need to take that action.

But I do encourage everybody to identify your direction. At least the first few steps: 

  • what type of lifestyle do you want to live? 
  • what will make you truly happy?
  • what emotional needs do you have?
  • what material needs do you have?
  • what lifestyle aspirations do you have?
  • what purpose do you have?
  • how can and you combine all of these things and what will that outcome look like? 

An important thing to take into account is don’t start going into stereotypes now, because only you know what’s best for you in your transformation. There is no right and wrong. I want you to really think about your needs because the focus here is not the material, even though that’s also important, but the most important is to feel happy and fulfilled in life. And remember that anything is possible, so make sure you dream as big as you want.

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Anna Bey is an educator in the elegant feminine empowerment space and the founder of an online finishing school for women. She can confidently call herself a pioneer in this genre because she was the first to be sharing content in this niche since 2012.

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Anna Bey is an expert on Modern Elegance™, upscale transformations, and leveling up, with over 150 million channel views. Since 2012, she has taught women how to develop a more refined personal presence and lifestyle inside the Anna Bey Academy, where she hosts her various classes and courses. Her publication features include The Times UK, Newsweek, New York Post, Cosmopolitan, and many more.


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